Cicero’s How to Be a Friend

Life is nothing without friendship. - Marcus Tullius Cicero

In 44 BC, Marcus Tullius Cicero was in his sixties—an old man by Roman standards—living on his farm outside of Rome removed from political power by the dictatorship of Julius Caesar.  He turned to writing to ease the pain of exile and the recent loss of his beloved daughter.

Atticus, his best friend—a friendship that started when they were young men and remained so throughout their lives—often encouraged him to write something about friendship.  So, Cicero penned a short essay on How to Be a Friend—or in Latin De Amicitia—which is arguably the best book ever written on the subject.

Cicero’s heartfelt advice is honest and moving in a way few works of ancient times are.  He describes a deeper kind of friendship in which two people find another who doesn’t seek profit or advantage from the other person.

Click here for a summary of Cicero’s How to Be a Friend

Happy National Relaxation Day!

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In 1985, Sean Moeller founded National Relaxation Day as a fourth-grader.  In an interview with Valerie Monson in The Des Moines Register Sean suggested people shouldn’t do anything of real value.  National Relaxation Day is a day to slow down, unwind, and take a moment to relax.  We all need a break from the fast-paced and often hectic lifestyles we live.

Taking time to recuperate and rejuvenate our tired minds and bodies may help prevent many health risks.  Most doctors will agree that finding ways to relax and finding ways to reduce stress will improve overall health.

Psalm 116:7-8 puts it this way (from The Message): I said to myself, “Relax and rest. God has showered you with blessings. Soul, you’ve been rescued from death; Eye, you’ve been rescued from tears; And you, Foot, were kept from stumbling.”

We can relax because we have great hope in the Lord.  That brings me to Max Lucado’s 2018 book, Unshakable Hope:  Building Our Lives on the Promises of God.

Click here for my summary