Cicero’s How to Be a Friend

Life is nothing without friendship. - Marcus Tullius Cicero

In 44 BC, Marcus Tullius Cicero was in his sixties—an old man by Roman standards—living on his farm outside of Rome removed from political power by the dictatorship of Julius Caesar.  He turned to writing to ease the pain of exile and the recent loss of his beloved daughter.

Atticus, his best friend—a friendship that started when they were young men and remained so throughout their lives—often encouraged him to write something about friendship.  So, Cicero penned a short essay on How to Be a Friend—or in Latin De Amicitia—which is arguably the best book ever written on the subject.

Cicero’s heartfelt advice is honest and moving in a way few works of ancient times are.  He describes a deeper kind of friendship in which two people find another who doesn’t seek profit or advantage from the other person.

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Proverbs on Friendship

Solomon was rich and famous, yet he needed real friends as much as anyone.  That’s because God made man with a built-in need and capacity for companionship.

Through Solomon, God provides us with rich insights for making our friendships as fulfilling as possible.

Friends can be fickle.  Proverbs 19:4 points out that wealth attracts friends, while the poor are shunned and deserted.  Solomon wisely advises that some friends will leave when your money runs out.

So what are we to do?

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