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Happy Father’s Day 2016

Fathers Day 2016

On June 19, 1910, Washington State celebrated the nation’s first statewide Father’s Day. Slowly, the holiday spread. Then, 100 years ago, President Wilson honored the day by using telegraph signals to unfurl a flag in Spokane when he pressed a button in Washington, D.C.

Later, President Calvin Coolidge urged state governments to observe Father’s Day. However, as one historian pointed out, many men “scoffed at the holiday’s sentimental attempts to domesticate manliness with flowers and gift-giving, or they derided the proliferation of such holidays as a commercial gimmick to sell more products–often paid for by the father himself.”

Now, it’s become such a tradition, we celebrate Father’s Day.  I bought a card to honor my father, who will visit us tomorrow…and my kids were secretly scrambling around yesterday…

As I considered different resources in honor of Father’s Day, I recalled Dr. Kevin Leman’s book Making Kids Mind Without Losing Yours.  Jennifer and I read it in 2008 when attending Capital Baptist Church in Annandale, Virginia.  Pastor Steve (author of Bod4God) asked us to lead a small group discussion about the book, which we found very helpful.  At the time, Katy was 8, Cody was 6, and Tanner was 1!  (The pictured above was taken yesterday, as we prepared to go see Finding Dory).  My, how the time flies!

Click here for a summary of ideas from Making Kids Mind Without Losing Yours.

The Matheny Manifesto: Succeeding in Sports & Life

Baseball 2016

This Spring has been full of baseball—in between the rain in Houston.  Cody (pictured above on the left) played his first year of Pony Baseball, and Tanner was in the Little League Minors Division.  Both had a lot of fun, and we really enjoy watching them play…

Last year, I heard about a book written by Mike Matheny, who followed a 13-year career in Major League Baseball by coaching a little league team.  He agreed to coach the team, with conditions.  In fact, a frankly worded letter he wrote to the parents of the team became an internet sensation and eventually a “manifesto”—which was codified in this book.

Matheny noted that his main goals are to:

  1. Teach these boys how to play baseball the right way
  2. Make a positive impact on them as young men
  3. Do all this with class

So besides getting them used to spending part of every practice without a glove or a bat, learning about honesty or teamwork or loyalty, he looked for service projects. While other teams might be traveling to other states for tournaments, Matheny was looking for places where boys could help out the less fortunate.

Matheny explains, “Ironically, if I had learned anything from baseball, from all the coaching and the training and the practices and the development, it was that so much more went into making a child an adult than teaching athletic skills and how to win games.”

Click here for more of The Matheny Manifesto.