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Leaders Eat Last

On this Maundy Thursday, we start three days of solemn remembrance of the events leading up to and immediately following the crucifixion of Jesus. The English word “Maundy” comes from the Latin mandatum, which means “commandment.” As recorded in John’s gospel, on his last night before his betrayal and arrest, Jesus washed the feet of his disciples and then gave them a new commandment to love one another as he had loved them (John 13:34).

This is a different picture than what we generally see of the modern “macho” man in America.  According to research, the five most difficult statements for the modern man to make are:  (1) I don’t know; (2) I was wrong; (3) I need help; (4) I’m afraid; and (5) I’m sorry.  In other words, real men don’t admit vulnerability.  But Jesus provided a different example.  So did John the Baptist.  One of his best known statements was in reference to Jesus:  “He must become greater; I must become less” (John 3:30).

There’s nothing phony about John’s humility—it’s real.  He has come to grips with who he is in relation to Jesus.  A humble man is not afraid to admit it.

Interestingly, Simon Sinek has found similar traits when researching leaders in industry.  Check out my summary of his latest book, Leaders Eat Last.

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Katy: Leading from the Lockers

Katy's Birthday

Our daughter, Katy, turned 16 earlier this month, and we had a fun time surprising her by meeting her track team at Fiesta Texas in San Antonio on her birthday.  She’s pictured above with a money cake.  Jennifer rolled up one hundred $1 bills and made her a three layered cake!

Katy has a lot of innate leadership qualities.  In fact, she was selected for a Hugh O’Brian Youth Leadership (HOBY) Seminar—designed to help high school sophomores recognize their leadership talents and apply them to become effective, ethical leaders in their home, school, workplace and community.

Last year, Katy was a protégé in a high school development program I designed and delivered—University Baptist Church’s Student Leadership Academy.  Over the course of the year, Katy was mentored by a high school student, addressing questions like:  Where do you see God at work in your life?  What challenges are you facing that you would like to discuss?

In the program, she also learned from Leadership Speakers and three different Workshops I delivered (Personal Effectiveness; Leadership Fundamentals; and Out of This World Leadership).  For the first workshop, I used a variety of John Maxwell’s materials, including his book Leading from the Lockers.

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