On Work-Life Fit: Dr. Cloud’s “One-Life Solution”

One-Life Solution Book

People used to have the structure of “work hours” that helped them know when work began and when it ended.  During the “good old days”, home was protected from work.  In the last two decades, however, the line between being available and unavailable blurred.

In his book, The One-Life Solution (2008), we join Dr. Henry Cloud as he counsels us to reclaim our personal lives while achieving greater professional success.

Continuing with ideas from his million-seller Boundaries, Cloud provides strategies to achieve success in 3 critical areas:

  • Be emotionally healthy
  • Be relationally healthy
  • Be performance healthy (fulfillment from your talents and passions)

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Do you have an “Effective Executive” mindset?

After serving as a front-line leader for nearly five years, I had the privilege to participate in a Leadership Development Program.  When I entered the program, I expressed a desire to grow so that “my voice would be heard in ‘senior management’ meetings.”  During the program, I took a Dale Carnegie Course called “Confident, Assertive, In Charge:  The Attitudes of Leadership”. 

In the course, the instructor said that sometimes we enter the room thinking we’re the least qualified or least experienced person there.  When we think that, it affects our behavior.  That point really resonated for me – even in how I referenced the group as “senior management”.  Up until that point, I often entered a room thinking that I’m the least qualified person there, recognizing that I’ll work over time to “earn” the right to speak.  Honestly, that served me well in the past; but as Marshall Goldsmith’s bestseller management title notes, “What Got You Here Won’t Get You There.”  And I recognize that there are fewer opportunities to make an impression at the executive level. 

That day, I realized my need to start thinking & acting like an executive, so I’m ready to be one!  How about you?  Do you have an “effective executive” mindset?  To learn more about management guru Peter Drucker’s view of an “Effective Executive”, click here.