Go Beyond the Golden Rule

On Friday, we celebrated Employee Appreciation Day—a way to recognize and appreciate employees with the intent of retaining staff.  For the last couple of years, we have provided breakfast tacos and shared a word of gratitude for our team.  It’s a great way to get the team together and say, “Thank you.”

For some, this is expressing their language of appreciation (see my post summarizing Gary Chapman’s The Five Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace).

However, this approach doesn’t work for everyone, and that’s the focus of today’s post.  I’ve often encouraged leaders to “Go Beyond the Golden Rule” when leading teams.  The Golden Rule says, “Treat other people the way you want to be treated.”  But if you lead a diverse team, not everyone will want your kind of treatment!

That’s where Tony Allesandra and Michael O’Connor’s The Platinum Rule comes in.  It says, “Do unto others as they’d like done unto them.”  In other words, treat others the way they want to be treated.  That means, you have to get to know your team members and their preferences!

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Can Presidents Lead?

The very definition of tyranny is when all powers are gathered under one place. - James Madison

Yesterday, we celebrated President’s Day—a Federal holiday.  This day was originally set aside to honor the life and work of George Washington (the first president of the United States) on February 22—the anniversary of his birth.  In 1971, the holiday was moved to the third Monday in February.

Many also celebrate Abraham Lincoln, who was born on February 12, so the day commemorates past presidents of the United States of America.

As we reminisce on past presidents, it is fitting to ask the question, “Can Presidents Lead?”  The Framers of the Constitution crafted a set of checks and balances that serve as multiple veto points for presidents.

In 2011, Michael Genovese, who serves as the Chair of Leadership Studies at Loyola Marymount University, updated his book entitled The Presidential Dilemma: Revisiting Democratic Leadership in the American System.  He offers interesting insights and perspectives to address our question.

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